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One on one coaching and matchmaking

Get to know yourself. Choose who is right for you.

One on one coaching for women and men who want to break repeating relationship patterns, build confidence and understand what they are looking for in a relationship. Alongside it, a matchmaking service for meeting someone with serious intentions.

My approach

When we understand what is right for us, we can choose differently.

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    Understand what repeats in your relationships

    Recognize patterns, tell attraction apart from compatibility, and see where you give up what matters to you.

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    Turn understanding into change

    Through conversations, tools and practice between sessions, we work on self confidence, boundaries and communication you can carry into a relationship.

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    Meet people by choice

    Get clear on what you are looking for, and approach dating knowing what is right for you and what you will not compromise on.

One on one coaching

What does personal coaching look like?

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    Understand where you are today

    We get to know your story, your past relationships and what is on your mind today. Together we define what you want to change and what you want from the process.

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    Practice new choices

    We work on repeating patterns, setting boundaries, self confidence and communication. Between sessions you get personal tasks that help you put the work into everyday life.

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    Apply it in dating and relationships

    We look at real situations as they come up: how to recognize compatibility, how to express your needs and how to take care of yourself as feelings grow stronger.

Coaching is shaped around your goals and your pace. Topics come together over the process, based on what comes up in our sessions.

The process includes one on one online sessions, tools and tasks between sessions, and support and check ins on WhatsApp. We usually meet once a week, or at a frequency tailored to your needs and goals. We agree on messaging and response times at the start.

Begin one on one with me

Nice to meet you, I am Cherie

There is a moment when you realize you want more. From yourself. From life. From love.

Long before this became my work, I was always the person people came to for conversations about life and the heart. People would open up to me and ask for advice, and sometimes a conversation would lead us right to the thing they had struggled to see on their own.

My own life taught me too. The challenges, choices, changes and lessons I went through shaped the way I see people and our ability to change. From my life experience, the knowledge I have gathered, my faith and the lessons I have been exposed to, I built my own personal approach. I have been doing this professionally for four years now, and I keep learning and refining it with every person I meet.

When you come to me, I want to know you beyond the story of your last relationship. To understand who you are, what matters to you, what you gave up along the way and what else you would like to do with your life. From there we build a process that fits you, with honest conversations, tools and tasks that stay with you after the session ends.

We look at the places where you keep making the same choices, struggle to say what you need or let fear decide for you. We work on confidence, boundaries, relationships and personal goals. You learn to trust yourself and take steps you may never have dared to take.

And then you start to see the change in life itself. In what you are willing to accept, in the way you speak, in the people you choose and in the goals you begin to reach. You meet the world differently, and the world starts to meet you differently too.

I have had the privilege of walking with people who left relationships that hurt them and built a new beginning for themselves. People who found a stable relationship, got engaged and married, and people who opened their hearts again in a second chapter. I have also seen people begin to stand up for themselves, choose themselves and fulfill dreams that had waited on the side for years.

Behind every success like this is a person I know, a road we walked together and moments I remember. So when you tell me that something has changed, that you managed to take that step, that you are doing well, I feel it with you.

The people I work with and my community are an inseparable part of my life. I invest, I think and I care. Your success is my success too, and knowing I have a part in the way someone builds themselves and their life is the reason I am happy to get up in the morning and do what I do.

Cherie, personal coach

Questions

Before you start, you probably have questions

One on one coaching

For women and men who want something in their life to look different and are ready to take a step for it. Maybe you keep returning to relationships that are not good for you, find it hard to set boundaries, are going through a breakup, or feel it is time to build confidence and start choosing yourself. You do not need to come with answers. You can come with confusion and a wish to understand where to begin.

The coaching also touches your personal life and the person you want to become. We work on self confidence, boundaries, decision making, relationships and reaching your goals and dreams. It matters to me to understand what you want for yourself, beyond relationships too, and to help you start moving toward it.

We start working from the very first session. I listen to your story, ask questions and help you make sense of what you are going through. You get knowledge, new perspectives and first tools that fit your situation. It matters to me that you leave with a clearer direction and the feeling that someone sees and understands you. Sometimes just being able to talk honestly and understand the next step already brings relief.

The process includes one on one sessions, practical tools, tasks between sessions, and support and check ins on WhatsApp. We set goals together and work on situations as they come up in your life. In every session we also come back to what you practiced, see what worked and where it was hard, and fine tune what comes next.

My support continues between sessions. You can share, ask and consult about situations related to the process, and update me on how you are doing with the tasks and tools you received. Sometimes the moment it is hard to set a boundary or choose differently comes between sessions. The check ins let us return to what we are working on and help you apply it. We agree on messaging and response times at the start.

We usually meet once a week, to keep continuity and leave room for the work between sessions. The frequency is tailored to your needs, your goals and the stage you are at. We agree together on what suits you and review it along the way.

Sessions take place online and are scheduled in advance, so you can work with me from anywhere in the world. Between sessions we stay in touch through support and check ins on WhatsApp, within a framework we agree on together.

I invest in getting to know the person in front of me. It matters to me to understand who you are, what you have been through, what drives you and where you feel stuck. From that, I tailor the path and the tools to you. My approach is direct, personal and practical. I say honestly what I see, ask the questions that are hard to ask, and at the same time give room to your feelings and your pace. I care about what happens to you after the session ends, and your progress matters to me personally.

You can know exactly what to do and still return to the same choice when feelings grow stronger or fear rises. Together we look at those moments and work on new responses and choices. The conversations, the practice and the check ins between sessions help us see where it is hard for you and refine the work. You will need to bring a willingness to take part and practice, and there is room for hard days and small steps too.

Yes. You can work on your confidence within the relationship, on the way you express needs, set boundaries and communicate. We focus on you, on what you experience and on the choices that are in your hands.

Yes. A breakup can bring pain, confusion and many questions about yourself and what comes next. We make room for what you are going through, understand what you want to leave behind and what you want to build differently. We set the pace according to where you are.

Everyone comes with their own story, goals and pace. At the start we define what to focus on and choose a suitable framework. Along the way we review your progress together and what still needs work. The goal is for you to be able to use the tools on your own in your life.

No. I am a personal coach, not a psychologist. My coaching focuses on personal growth, goals, patterns and practical tools for life and relationships. It is not a substitute for mental health treatment by a licensed professional.

The stories you see on my channels are not a condition for taking part. If I would like to share your testimonial or story, I will ask for permission in advance and we will agree on what can be shared and whether to identify you. It matters to me that you feel comfortable choosing not to be shown.

Leave your details on the site or reach out to me through the contact button. We will look at what you are looking for and whether the coaching fits your needs. Before you start, you will get the details of the framework, the session frequency, the WhatsApp support and the cancellation terms.

Matchmaking and relationships

One on one coaching focuses on your work with yourself: confidence, boundaries, patterns, relationships and personal goals. The matchmaking service focuses on meeting someone for a serious relationship and on assessing compatibility between people. Before joining, you will get an explanation of the relevant service, what it includes and its terms.

No one can guarantee a relationship or decide when it will come, because a relationship depends on the will and compatibility of two people. In the process we work on what you can influence: knowing yourself, recognizing compatibility, expressing your needs and choosing a relationship that is good for you.

Take the first step with me

The love you're ready for starts within.

The waitlist is open.

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Let’s get to know you.

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